So it's been a waaay long time since I've written;

In brief, SP had shoulder surgery and I almost did too for the exact same complaint, but my MRI's weren't as bad as his. His recovery and physical therapy was LONG and painful , so I'm very glad I didn't have to have the same surgery for a torn rotator cuff; mine was just 'inflamed'.

However, I personally had 2 more surgeries to remove my right fallopian tube and ovary, in December, which was a total nightmare from which I'm only just getting better. So now we know that the pain I was having abdominally was not due to endometriosis or anything to do with having my hysterectomy in Feb '08.

BUUUTT Humana, the complete cunts , decided in December to NOT pay for ANY of those surgeries or consultations or blood work or anything, saying it was a pre-existing condition, so now we have to go to court and sue them for retracting the money from the hospitals. So I owe like $90,000.

I was going to declare bankruptcy as I have no credit here anyway, so it wouldn't matter one bit to me, but even if I do that... or even if SP and I divorce (like on purpose and only for this financial reason), SP would STILL be liable for all my medical debts as he 'sponsored' me to come into the country.  THe ONLY way he isn't responsible is if I give up my Residency here and move out of the country !   How ridiculous.

We went to Mexico with 15 friends for New Years which was a blast and I had the 'trip' of a lifetime   It was also a nice way to recuperate a little from my surgeries.